Not everything has to be perfect to be meaningful. Progress over perfection. Why do you keep a messy room? Do you want to change?
Is This You?
***Purpose***
1. A Messy Room and Your Mental Health
Did you know
that a messy room may be a sign of depression, sign of feeling overwhelmed, or a sign of your preferences? Verywellmind.com talks about this.
They further added that possibly you have a type B personality which
suggests that you are more relaxed and not focused on achieving perfection like
a type A personality.
Are you a
parent that has a child that keeps a messy room? I recall I had a child that kept a messy room
and when I told her to clean her room this is what happened. It would appear clean, but when I opened her closet
door everything fell out on me.
2. Emotional Attachment
People who
developed anxious attachment styles in childhood, typically because a caregiver
was inconsistent in meeting their needs, are more likely to seek emotional
comfort from material objects. Scienceinsights.org.,
further added that a room full of objects you can’t bear to part with maybe
less about the objects themselves and more about what they represent
emotionally: security, memory, connection to people or times that feel
uncertain.
3. Change
Are you a
messy and want to change? One of the
best books that I have read was Messie No More by Sandra Felton. A few take aways from this book that I loved
was as follows:
a. To keep my house clean, clean something
daily in each room, preferably something different each day. Instead of allowing clutter and things to
pile up.
b. Life is not a sprint, but a marathon.
c. A messy house is frequently the result of
a messie’s effort to stay in control of their life.
d. Reasons to get the house under control is
so the house will look better for company, so the house will look nice for you,
so the house will work better, so you will not have to work so hard, and to
reduce the feeling of helplessness.
Also I
remember reading in this book that messy’s tend to want to hold on to things
and keep it in clear sight in the event they may need it, as opposed to filing it or putting it away in a specific space.
Is this you?
4. Clutter Affects Your Brain
Are you
aware that clutter affects Your Brain? Clutter
can cause visual overload, attention splitting, stress response, and decision
fatigue. Myhealthopedia.com further
adds that clutter reduces focus, fuels procrastination, affects sleep quality,
encourages unhealthy habits, and affects memory.
5. Depression
Could a
messy room be a sign of depression? According
to verywellmind.com it could be a sign of depression because depressed people
often feel too fatigued or hopeless to keep up with the routine of household
tasks. They just do not have the energy
to straighten up the room. They further
added that a messy room may be a sign that person is feeling very overwhelmed
with the clutter.
6. Consignment Stores
I often took my children's and grandchildren's clothes to
consignment shops. I discovered some of the shops were very cluttered and not
well-organized. I discovered I could not
stand that clutter, because it just bothered me. Eventually I stopped going to some of
them. There are also retail stores that
have special deals where they bring items out already boxed. Those that are always looking for a deal
seemingly love it. That particular type
of clutter is not worth the deal to me.
I just cannot stand it. So, I
discovered clutter is not just in individual houses, it carries over into the
stores.
7. Emotional
Attachments
Do you have sentimental things that you are emotionally attached
to? Do you keep boxes of clothes saying
that one day you might wear that? Do
you have a problem with letting go of materials things? Do you look for sales to save things just
because they are on sale? According to
nuvancehealth.org., talks about this. Eventually,
these treasures become cluttered. An
alternative to holding on to this stuff is possibly taking a picture and saving
it. You still have memories unless you
get Alzheimer’s disease and that is a different story.
I recall holding on to clothing.
I now recheck my closet yearly.
If I have not worn it within the year, I will send it to Carriage Town
not the Salvation Army. The Salvation
Army resales the items. Carriage Town
gives the items to needy individuals.
8. Cluttered Email
How does your email look?
Is your email cluttered. Do you
clean it out daily? I discovered my email was very cluttered. If
your email is not maintained it can become cluttered. Do you receive a lot of spam mail? That can cause clutter as well. Clutter comes in all forms.
9. Slips and Falls
Did you know too much clutter can be the cause of slips and
falls? Living with clutter puts you at
risk of tripping over the clutter.
Webmd.com talks about this. They further added that in one study done
volunteers who filled out surveys in a neat room were more likely to say they
wanted to donate to a charity compared with those who were questioned in a
messy room.
10. How to Stop Being
Messy
Is your room messy, but you want to change? It can be done. Start with baby steps,
start small, set achievable goals, develop piles to keep, donate, or re-sell, and
above all be realistic.
Source:
What Does a Messy Room Say About Your
Personality?
What Does a Messy Room Mean
Psychologically? - ScienceInsights
Messie No More - Sandra Felton -
Google Books
How Clutter Affects Your Brain? The
Science Behind Mess & Mental Health\What
Does a Messy Room Say About Your Personality?
How clutter affects your brain health
| Nuvance Health
Ways Clutter Negatively Affects Your
Health
How to Stop Being a Messy Person:
Simple Steps to New Habits
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