Are you stressing and constantly worrying about this or that? Does the worrying really do you any good? Is the worrying harmful to you in more ways than one?
Think About this. . .
***Intentional***
1. Connecting to Others
Are you connecting to others? Are you isolating? Connecting to others is a great way to de-stress because then you are not focusing on your problems. You do know that as long as you live you will have some type of problems. The thing about this is how will you handle your problems. Problems sometime can seen overwhelming. Think about this. Have you had a day that you were feeling bad and worrying about your problem, but later discovered after talking with someone else that you forgot about your problem for the moment? The problem did not go away, but for a moment you were not concentrating or stressing over it.
2. Managing Stressing
Are you managing your stress? Ways to manage stress may include taking control of your environment, altering daily routines, adapting to situations, accepting some things, and staying active but not too active. Medicinenet.com talks about this. They further add that being active enhances your memory, mood, and sleep and reduces tension and worry. I could not agree more. Sitting on the couch all day watching your favorite television soaps is not keeping your body active. If it is really cold outside, have your tried walking in your house. This is especially important for the elderly and for those even working from home.
I still cannot forget Michelle Obama. I mention this often. When she introduced keeping the body moving in the schools, I believe this was a great idea. Children sitting in a classroom all day need to be moving.
Have you watched how much energy some toddlers have? They are almost constantly moving. Well you may not be able to move like a toddler, but do what you can do. In other words, do you.
3. Stress Apps
Several stress apps that are talked about by University of Nebraska Medical Center; Namely Colorfy, Breath2relax, and 7 Cups. My favorite that they mentioned is 7 cups. This app has trained active listeners available to chat with you via text or online. I think that this is awesome.
4. Signs of Stress
Do You Know the Signs of Stress? Signs of stress may include being worried, angry, irritable, depressed, and unable to focus according to odphp.health.gov.
5. The 3-3-3 Rule for Anxiety?
Do you know what the 3-3-3 Rule for Anxiety is? The 3-3-3 rule is a mindfulness technique that’s simple enough for young children. It asks them to name three things they can see, identify three sounds they can hear, and move three different parts of their bodies. This is an enjoyable activity that distracts children from their worries and refocuses them on the here and now according to medicinenet.com.
6. More Resources
Did you know that the more resources that you can have available to you can be very helpful during times of anxiety? Thrivetoday.org., lists several resources that may be helpful. Some of them include podcasts: Overcoming Anxiety, and The Importance of Quieting. Webinars that are free 30-60 minutes: Stopping the Cycle of Anxiety, Finding Peace for the Pit of Your Stomach, and Emotions that Drain. Books: The Joy Switch, The 4 Habits of Raising Joy-Filled Kids, and Relational Skills in the the Bible. Courses: The Foundational 5 Introductory Course and Overcoming Anxiety in an Unsettled World.
7. Your Triggers for Anxiety
Do you know your triggers for anxiety? Everyone is different. Do any of the following sound familiar as a possible anxiety trigger for you? Do you feel exhaustion or a build-up of stress, lots of change or uncertainty, long working hours, money problems, homelessness, being out of work, feeling lonely or isolated, or being abused or bullied? Mind.org.uk mentions this.
I know several jobs that may require long work hours. I think of nurses that are working 12 hour shifts caring for others. Even though they get 3 days off is that really enough for all that they do? That has to take a tole on their minds and their bodies at some point. What about those that work double shifts because they need the money? There is no time for them to rest working those type of hours.
8. The Fast Lane
Have you heard the expression, “We live in a Microwave Society.” We want what we want fast and we do not want to wait. Does this sound familiar? Do you know how to wind down? Have you had anxiety because of waiting for something that you felt is taking too long? Do you ask prayer from God, but want to tell him how and when to do it? Rather than take the time to cook a good nutritious meal do you opt to cook a TV dinner because it is much quicker and you will not have to wait long? Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declared the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Yes God tells the plans he has for you, but does not tell you when it is coming.
I recall staying home with my children for awhile when they were younger. I opted to be off work for awhile. I told my youngest one who was about 6 or 7 that I was going into my bedroom to read a book. I wanted some, “Me” time. I estimated it would be about an hour. When the hour was up, I felt so good I wanted to stay 10 more minutes and I expressed that to my young children. My youngest came back with, “I will be glad when you finish having your “Me” time. I laughed silently. She was tired of waiting. She felt I was taking too long and she wanted her mother. Just another example of how you might want what you want right then. The problem comes is when it may seem like it is taking too long and we just concentrate on that and nothing else. Doing that too much can over time lead to other physical and mental problems as well.
9. Relax
Do you know how to relax? Do you know how to take it easy? Has someone ever told you to just “Chill?” Relaxing is so important for relieving stress. I recall always having a “to-do” list. Sometimes my to-do list would be so long I had trouble completing it. Then I thought to myself, “What will happen if I do not complete everything within the day?” I thought, “Could I complete the balance of the list on another day?” Then I started prioritizing. I thought,” Is this something that needs to be done today?” “Could this possibly wait until another time?” So I gradually realized some things can wait and it might be more important to take time and relax. I started prioritizing and taking a step back to look at the big picture. Some people relax by meditating, doing deep-breathing exercises, or possibly just listening to their favorite music. Find out what works for you to relax.
Because everyone is different you will need to find what ways helps you to stop stressing. What are some of the ways that help you to stop stressing.
Source:
What Are the 5 A’s to Help Manage Stress?
What Is the 3-3-3 Rule for Anxiety?
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