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Words
can either edify and build you up or they can tear you down and kill
you. Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue,
and those who love it will eat the fruit thereof. Are your words
positive and uplifting to others? Do your words encourage or
discourage? Think before you speak.
1.
I Can
I
recall in one of my classes in college there was great discussion
about “I can and I can't.” No one including employers want to
hear about what you can't do. People like people with the “I can”
attitudes. One thing that I have learned from God's word is that I
cannot rely on feelings. One day I may feel happy then another day I
may feel said. Regardless of my emotions I know “I can” speak
God's word over my life and it will and does change my way of
thinking. Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ which
strengthens me.
2.
Laughter
Proverbs
17:22 a merry Heart doeth good like a medicine, but a broken spirit
drieth the bones.
When
you laugh aloud, you usually end up feeling really good. Do you
know of people that can say almost anything and make you laugh? I
often wondered why I like comedy pictures. After thinking about
it, I realized the comedy pictures would make me laugh and I usually
felt really good after watching one. Try it. Then think about how
you feel afterward. Think about some of the things they say and do
in the comedy picture. Think of people that you feel good when you
are around them. Someone once said, “Why not give a hearty laugh:
ha,ha, ha.” You never know what a laugh can do.
2.
I Will
Saying
“I will do something or I will be something” gives a certain
expectation or hope. It has been said that, “Your word is your
bond.” Usually you will expect and believe that the person saying
that will follow through and do just that.
3.
I was Wrong
Do
you know people that have a hard time admitting that they are wrong?
Do you have difficulty admitting that you are wrong? It takes a
strong person to do that. Admitting that you are wrong about
something shows character and shows that you are not flawless or
perfect. There is no perfect one, but God.
4.
I Will Listen More
Has
anyone told you, “You are not listening to what I am saying?”
Have you ever been in such a rush to tell someone else something,
that you totally missed what they were trying to tell you you? Have
you ever had a conversation where you did most of the talking and the
other person knows everything about you, yet you know very little
about that person. Do you put more emphasis on what you want to say?Why not try listening to what is being said. Remember to tell
yourself, “ I will listen more.” Words are powerful; talk to
yourself.
5.
Thank You or I appreciate You
Saying
“thank you” let's the other person know that you appreciate them.
Everyone likes to be appreciated. I recall a church that I visited
while on vacation. It was raining and after parking our car, there
were men coming from the church with umbrella's to escort each family
member into the church. I naturally told them thank you, because
even though unexpected it was quite welcome. I also recall a church
I visited recently. The hospitality was exceptional. The ushers
said, “We are so glad to see you here.” “Thank you for
coming.” They said it with a smile so their action matched their
words. What powerful words do you use?
6.
Gratitude
Have
you ever told someone that you are glad they are in your life? Try
it sometimes.
7.
Excellent
When
I hear that someone did an excellent job, I think of the greatest.
I do not think that they did a fair job or just a good job. Have
you noticed when completing some restaurant surveys, if you mark good
or fair that they may ask you why was it just good? They may ask,
“Did you have a problem today?” One of the reasons they ask is
because they were hoping you would answer excellent. If they can
correct the problem then future responses may be excellent.
8.
Awesome
Awesome
is my favorite word. I love to use it and when I do use it I
definitely mean it. Do you have a favorite positive word that you
use?
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2 comments:
Such great advice Betty! When I taught in a classroom these were all very important things to remember to help my students be more positive! Thanks for sharing with us at The Blogger's Pit Stop!
Yes, words do matter and can make the difference in someone's life. Thanks for sharing at the Traffic Jam Weekend Linky Party.
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