There
is no need to be a victim. You can choose to start taking
responsibility for your life. There is no need to continue with a
pity party for yourself. You can choose to move on and become the
victor.
1.
Bullying
Are
you a victim of bullying? I have observed in the schools that they
are now talking about and teaching children how to not be a victim of
bullying. Even though Michigan was the next to the last state to
approve the anti-bullying law, I am thankful that it did finally get
approved. As I talked with several elementary school children they
explained to me that a policeman came to their school, talked to
them, and gave them examples of bullying. They explained to me if
they stand by watching someone getting bullied and do nothing, they
were not helping. They emphasized how they are instructed to tell
the bully to stop. They also emphasized they are to inform a
teacher, someone in authority, and their parents also about such
incidents.
I
recall my daughter coming home from middle school and telling me how
kids were teasing a girl about the father killing the mother. I
thought this was horrible. So did my daughter. I was so proud when
she told me she stood up for this girl and told the other kids to
stop it. Mind you my daughter was a very quiet girl and said very
little to anyone normally, but that particular day she was not quiet. This is sad that kids can be so cruel.
2.
Stop Blaming
So
many times we so easily blame others for our short comings. Why not
take responsibility for your life. I have been just as guilty. How
many times have you said, “If only he didn't do this, things would
be so much better?” or maybe you have said, “If she would just
change, it would make my life so much better.” Well if we are
waiting for others, we may end up waiting all of our life. Something
that I have learned is that although I do not have control over
everything, there are a few things in my life that I do have control
over.
3.
Job Loss
If
you are blessed to still have a job that is great. Sometimes the
loss of a job can be a blessing, because then it is time for you to
move on to bigger and better things. You can either be the victim
and talk about how your employer did you wrong or you can move on.
Everyone's circumstance is different. You could consider going back
to school to further your education. Possibly you may want to change
careers. There is nothing written that says you have to stay in the
same career. God has given us all creativity in our spirit. So there
may be numerous jobs you can do successfully. You just need to find
out which one it will be. I recall one of my jobs evolved around
basically nothing but computers and schedules. I did not like
computers, but God showed me that there was so much to learn about
them, because computers are everywhere. I even use to joke with my
co-workers that I dreamed we were watching television and playing
games on the computer. They laughed then. Eventually that did become
a reality, because now it is even commonplace to watch a movie on the
computer, Ipad, or even iphone. So remember life is what you make
it. Learn not to be a victim, but become the victor.
4.
Practice Gratitude
Have
you tried practicing gratitude? Possibly you say to yourself that
you have nothing to be thankful for. That is a big mistake. If you
look hard enough there are so many things that you can be thankful
for. While practicing being thankful it is hard to play the victim
at the same time. So practicing gratitude is a choice. Do you
want to choose to be a victim or to be thankful. Maybe you need to
start small. Think of one thing that you are thankful for and then
add on to that thought. I have a grandchild that keeps me mindful of
gratitude. Any of my grandchild’s activities that I may attend I
am always told, “Granny thank you so much for coming.” What are you thankful for today?
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Yes, I always start my day in prayer and gratitude and this is a great reminder. Thank you for sharing at the #TrafficJamWeekend Linky Party
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