Have you ever heard someone say, "I am going to find me a husband?" There is no perfect husband. Everyone has some type of flaw or imperfection. Even with all his flaws, God has designed that perfect man for you.
1. Proverbs 18:22 Husband findeth a wife.
To those that are already married and attempting to make him perfect "forget it." So what if he prefers the roll of toilet tissue on top or on the bottom of the roll. So what if he forgets and leaves the top off the toothpaste. So what if he puts the wallpaper up on the wall differently than the way that you do. So what if he is disorganized when putting the wallpaper up and you on the other hand are very organized and disciplined. Those are little unimportant things. Concentrate on issues not topics. You have more important things in life to concentrate on and consider:
2. Seek And He Will Find
It takes time to know whether he is consistent. This cannot be found out in a week or even a month. Over a course of time the real man will come out, he cannot pretend and put on his best front all the time. At some point in time that guard will come down.
While you are waiting for that perfect husband for you, why not relax in the Lord? Why not be busy in the work of the Lord? Why not be busy in bettering yourself? If that means going back to school, why not do it? Be active in keeping yourself well groomed. You never know when or where that perfect husband for you will show up. It might be while you are at the doctor's office or possibly while at the laundry mat. You never know.
Sometimes men have visited a church one time and will claim they are a member there. Sometimes they may even carry a bible around, but do they read it?
I recall a set of identical twins. One of them left her fiance standing at the alter and ran off with another man. The other twin eventually married the same fiance. They have been married many years now. You never know how your husband may find you.
If you discover this is the perfect husband for you, marriage counseling could give you great tools for success after you are engaged. Even with all the knowledge available to us, you will never know everything that there is too know about marriage. Know that there is nothing wrong with calling the engagement off. In fact, this would be the best time before marriage rather than after marriage. If this happens, just thank God you found what out what you needed to know before marriage.
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