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I
discovered very early in life that I had two strong-willed children.
Often I would see them challenging each other, because each felt
their way was the right way. This does not have to be a bad thing at
all.
Remember you want to pick your battles carefully.
1.
Choices
Sometimes
offering your children choices will help them think about alternative
solutions as oppose to just one solution to a problem. Children love
to have choices, because it gives them a feeling of some control.
There are times in a parent-child relationship when children feel
they have no control such as a family move or even spouses divorcing.
2.
Competitive
Because
strong-willed children may tend to be competitive possibly encourage
them to work as a team. As a team they both can suggest their
solutions and blend them together. Sometimes children and adults
have tunnel vision. Role playing gives them a glimpse of how others
see you. I recall my children suggested doing role play. They
depicted me as acting as if anything that my youngest child did was
okay. That was an eye-opener for me.
3.
Right and Wrong
Sometimes
when each strong-willed child is so determine to have their own way
let them know they are valued and that possibly each idea is good.
Let them know that there is no right or wrong, but rather
possibilities.
4.
Example
If
you are married to a strong-willed person, lead by example. Allow
your children to witness how you are dealing with your strong-willed
spouse. Children are always watching you. How do you deal with
your strong-willed children?
5.
Specialty
Every
child is unique and special. Discover what your strong-willed child
is good at and what your child likes. Gear your child in that
direction. Keep them active in activities so as to be well rounded.
That strong will may be necessary for that future career. That
strong-will child may become a Superintendent, Doctor, Lawyer, Accountant, or Child Care Specialist.
Remember your child is the future for tomorrow.
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Betty, I was drawn to this post at #MMBH because I have friends with a strong-willed child. Great tips. Sometimes we see it as just a problem, but as you've indicated, there are some good aspects as well.
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